Sam & Riley

AMSTERDAM · XV · VIII · MMXXVI

Riley & Sam
are getting married!

City of
Amsterdam
15 August 2026 · Hotel De L'Europe

Join us in Amsterdam this August for a weekend that will feel romantic, festive, and just a little indulgent. More than anything, we wanted this to feel generous, joyful, and unmistakably ours. A celebration of our marriage, and of the world we are lucky enough to share with you.

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A note from us

Our Story

Riley and Sam both went to Washington and Lee. Even at a school with fewer than two thousand students, we never crossed paths — though we did share a yearbook page. We finally met years later in Washington, DC, both with a couple of master’s degrees under our belts. During the early days of the pandemic, we sought shelter in whatever restaurants or bars would have us. We must have put over a hundred miles on our shoes, just to spend a few more minutes together.

Riley proposed to Sam in our favorite city Charleston, SC with both of our families present. Riley surprised Sam during what was supposed to be a @SweetTeaWithMadi photoshoot in beautiful Philadelphia Alley. With the church bells ringing, Riley took a knee and popped the question. Luckily, yes was Sam’s answer.

The steeple at Philadelphia Alley, Charleston

A few of our favorite memories together include traveling to Paris together (and leaving separately), adopting our cat Lars and driving him home from NC, holiday eves at The Deck, and the slow nights at home when we can unwind together. We can’t wait to see you in Amsterdam. Tot gauw!

Ashtray Match Book

Programme

Events

I.

White Out Canal Cruise

Friday, 14 August 2026
5:30 PM – 6:30 PM
Aboard the Wolk · Amsterdam canals

Begin the weekend with a private canal cruise aboard the Wolk—Dutch for "Cloud"—as we drift through Amsterdam’s famous waterways. We depart from the private jetty at Hotel De L’Europe promptly at 5:30 PM. Refreshments on board for the hour-long cruise. We arrive at LuminAir just in time for the welcome party.

Dress code: White Party! Since there’s no bride at this wedding, everyone gets to wear white.

II.

The Welcome

Friday, 14 August 2026
7:00 PM – 9:00 PM
LuminAir · Amsterdam

After the canal cruise, we gather high above the city at LuminAir for the welcome party. The skyline views speak for themselves. There will be dinner, an open bar with wine, beer, and a signature cocktail, and plenty to eat and drink into the night. The evening wraps up at 9:00 PM, though you are more than welcome to linger.

Dress code: White Party! Since there’s no bride at this wedding, everyone gets to wear white.

III.

The Wedding

Saturday, 15 August 2026
5:00 PM – 9:00 PM
Hotel De L’Europe · Amsterdam

The ceremony begins at 5:30 PM — doors open at 5:00. Afterward, join us for cocktails in the Chapter 1896 lounge. Once everyone’s had a chance to sip and celebrate, we’ll sit down together for a four-course dinner with a wine pairing. Dinner runs from 7:00 to 9:00 PM. The party continues after.

Dress code: For the Boys: black-tie if that is fun for you. For the Ladies: Floor-length or cocktail dress would be appropriate. The grooms will be in tuxedos.

IV.

The After Party

Saturday, 15 August 2026
9:00 PM – Midnight
Freddy’s Bar · Amsterdam

Join us at the historic Freddy’s Bar to raise a glass — to Amsterdam, to weddings, to love, or to something else entirely.

Dinner is over, but the night isn’t. The bar will be open — wine, beer, and our signature cocktail. If the dancing makes you hungry, late-night snacks will find you. The music plays until midnight.

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    The wedding

    Saturday, 15 August — ceremony at five, dinner at seven, reception at nine. Will you be joining us?

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    Friday evening

    You’re invited to join us the evening before. Both events are entirely optional.

    Canal cruise — 5:30 PM

    Welcome party — 7:00 PM

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    A few last things

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